B.B. King – The Letter #manlymusicfriday
He’s not called “The King” just because of his name… This guy really had some amazing talent!
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Back to School: Read
As little kids rush off to school with their shiny new backpacks and lunch pails, Men, let’s take a look at our own education. Let’s invest in a bit of self-education to raise the bar in our own lives, learning new skills, useful information, and adding value to our lives.
So many men that I know say that they do not like to read.
This, my friends, is why manhood is in decline.
Well – it’s one of the reasons.
Take the time to EDUCATE yourself by reading books, magazines, blogs, etc that stretch your mind and challenge you.
If you struggle to read, maybe because of a learning disability or whatever – consider getting audio books, instructional videos, or podcasts.
But whatever the case may be – reading (or listening) is an extremely valuable tool. I’d encourage you to make a reading list of books that will help you grow in whatever skills or areas that you need in your life.
This is a great reason to have a mentor – someone who does what you do – but does it a few steps ahead of you. Ask them what books they read. Make your own list, and get hopping.
Quick tips for reading more.
1. Download the kindle app on your smartphone. Delete your games. During downtime, read instead of playing Candy Crush.
2. Put a stack of books in your bathroom.
3. Develop the habit of reading for a few minutes when you first wake up.
4. Join a group that is reading through a book together, or get a friend or two to commit to read a book with you over a six week period with a weekly debrief.
Back When I Knew It All by Montgomery Gentry #manlymusicfriday
How about a little Montgomery Gentry? We can handle a little country – if it’s GOOD country…
Back to School: Learn a Skill
As little kids rush off to school with their shiny new backpacks and lunch pails, Men, let’s take a look at our own education. Let’s invest in a bit of self-education to raise the bar in our own lives, learning new skills, useful information, and adding value to our lives.
Don’t confuse natural talents with skills.
Natural talents are things you are naturally good at doing. They can be refined and sharpened with hard work and practice, but the basic intuitive abilities are there.
A skill is learned, practiced, and developed. Natural talents may indicate what skills you would be best suited for, but a skill is not hard-wired.
For example – you may be a naturally talented singer, and you may work hard to develop that talent, and become great at it.
You might not know, though, how to build a guitar from scratch. So maybe, you decide this is a skill you would like to learn.
Is there a skill you want to add to your utility belt? Follow this checklist to turn it from an idea to an accomplishment.
1. Identify a skill that you have the natural capacity to learn. If you are tone deaf, you probably shouldn’t try to become a singer. However, if you have hands, you can learn to build. If you can walk, you can learn to run.
2. Research your skill. My dad always told me that you can learn anything you want to know in a book. Now that my dad has entered the digital age, he’s amended his statement to say that you can learn anything you want to know from Google. And he’s right. Want to learn a skill? Find out WHAT you need to learn – just do a simple google search, identify websites, videos, books, tutorials, etc. that will give you the information that you need.
3. Make a plan. “Failure to plan is planning to fail.” Take the time to sketch out a plan, a schedule, and goals for the process of learning your skill. That includes time to go through the research you’ve collected, time to practice it yourself, and people that you may need to connect with for mentorship or advice.
4. Execute your plan. Information without application is useless data. Take the information that you’ve assembled, and the plan you’ve sketched out – and actually do it. You can SAY you want to build a chicken coop – but until you build it – you are not a chicken farmer. You can’t learn a new skill without implementing that learning. Chances are – it’s fear of failure that stops you from actually executing the plan. And as ANY learner can tell you – sometimes failure is part of that learning process. Be prepared to take the risks.
Back to School: Teach yourself
As little kids rush off to school with their shiny new backpacks and lunch pails, Men, let’s take a look at our own education. Let’s invest in a bit of self-education to raise the bar in our own lives, learning new skills, useful information, and adding value to our lives.
It’s important to understand that learning isn’t supposed to be limited to the halls of education. You, as a man, are responsible to teach yourself. To pursue knowledge.
Graduation may have felt like a release from the shackles of the classroom, but if we want to grow as a man, if we want to succeed, we need to consider ourselves lifelong learners.
Hopefully you learned to read, and learned to research, and learned the tools that you need to be able to expand your own education from now till you’re dead.
A man who cannot learn anything knew is destined to fail and fall short.
So let’s take some inventory, and identify what the next steps are in our own self-education.
Everclear – Father Of Mine #manlymusicfriday
This is one of those songs that is a manly declaration for any boys who were abandoned by their own dads.
Let’s NEVER let anyone sing this song about us!
Even if you can’t work it out with mom – do whatever you can to be dad to your kids.
Hot Summer Nights: Sometimes Netflix and Chill is okay
At Manlihood.com, we don’t want to be like Esquire, GQ, or Maxim. We have a different moral compass and a different motivation than other men’s magazines. But that doesn’t mean we have to be afraid to talk about sexuality. This month, we’re going to talk about how to reignite your sex life with your spouse. Disclaimer: I may be a little old fashioned. My perspective on sex may be filled with assumptions about marriage as the primary conduit for sexual activity. This doesn’t mean I’m judging anyone who does it differently. I’ll leave it up to you how you apply these blog posts.
The phrase “Netflix and Chill” has become synonymous with – let’s pretend to watch TV and have sex.
Sometimes – just chilling out and watching Netflix is important. Sometimes just sitting on the couch together watching American Pickers, without any pressure to perform is good relationship building.
Here’s a list of things you can do that don’t involve sex that can help you have better sex later.
Take a walk.
Cook together
Play Go Fish
Sit by a campfire
Read out loud together
Sing along to the radio
Any number of seemingly worthless activities – that in reality allow you to feel close to each other.
Ultimately – just spending time together will help you feel close. THAT makes for better sex when the time comes.
500 Chunks of Manly Knowledge
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I know what you are thinking!
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Wisdom for Men: 500 Chunks of Manly Knowledge is full of excellent passages on manhood, courage, hard work, common sense, and the enduring spirit of men. With quotes from Bear Grylls, Jack Donovan, Teddy Roosevelt, George S. Patton, and many others, Josh Hatcher has compiled a meaningful and inspiring source of wisdom for any man.
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on August 26, 2016Simple, easy-to-digest, nuggets of wisdom, but packed with plenty of meat to sustain the journey. Loved perusing this awesome collection of wisdom! I will refer to this often.
Foo Fighters – My Hero #manlymusicfriday
Heroism is something all men can understand. We have other men that we admire and want to pattern our lives after. Sometimes we can actually connect with them, sometimes they fly right by. Let’s strive not only to admire the right kind of men, but to BE men that others can admire.
Be the hero to someone that YOU needed.