I’ve seen in my own life that I can’t ever really hide anything. If I have a truth that I want to hide behind deception – it will always come out.
Men, this matters. And we need to have this hard conversation today.
Cosmic Laws
Whether you believe in God, or just the random spinning of the universe, we have to believe in certain cosmic laws. I would call them divine laws – you may call them something else. We may even disagree on what some of them are – but there are many that we find common ground on.
Sowing and Reaping
The principle of sowing and reaping is one of those cosmic laws. What you plant, you will pick. If you plant tomato plants, you will not pick zucchini – you will pick tomatoes.
If I treat people poorly, it will come back to me. If I lie, it will eventually be exposed.
When we try to bury certain behaviors or attitudes, that is honestly like burying a seed in the ground. It will grow and eventually – we’ll harvest it.
Truth Always Come Out
Let’s not be so short sighted to think that just because we did not get caught NOW, that we’re going to get away scott-free. Eventually, the truth always comes out.
Honest is truly the best policy
I would rather someone be honest with me up front – then for me to trust them, only to find out that they lied.
Better to come clean than to be stripped bare
Given the choice between exposing my mistakes, and being exposed by someone else – I can assure you that coming forward and telling the truth is a much better feeling than having someone else tell all of your dirty laundry for you.
Are you tired of surface-level relationships and ready to take the leap into building authentic friendships? As men, we often struggle to form deep connections with others, but it’s not impossible. In this blog post, we’re going to explore the key ingredients for making authentic friendships and give you actionable steps to take in order to start building the kind of relationships that will bring meaning and fulfillment to your life.”
About Simon Brolund
Simon Brolund is the co-founder of Authentic Friendship, a program designed to teach individuals how to build and deepen friendships. He has a background as a serial entrepreneur and trained teacher, and has been coaching and mentoring people on the subject of friendship for the last 15 years. Simon is also a tech-savvy and passionate about bringing the topic of friendship to the forefront, removing the shame around the struggles of building connections. He believes that every person is worthy of love and belonging, and that authentic friendships are the key to fulfilling this need. In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, Simon will be sharing his expertise on the subject and discussing how men can improve their social skills and build deeper connections with others.
Building Authentic Friendships
Simon explains that the Enneagram personality system, which is based on how individuals see the world, can be a powerful tool for understanding oneself and connecting with others on a deeper level. He also emphasizes the importance of finding common ground and shared interests, whether it be through church, entrepreneurship, or a specific lifestyle, in order to build strong connections.
Trust and Vulnerability
Simon also delves into the topic of trust and vulnerability in friendships, and how it is important to be able to communicate openly and honestly with one’s friends. He stresses the importance of not only being able to receive feedback, but also being willing to give it in a loving way, in order to build stronger relationships.
Balancing Family and Friendship
Lastly, Simon addresses the issue of balancing time with friends and family, particularly when one’s spouse may not be on board with spending time with friends. He suggests having open and honest conversations with one’s spouse about what fuels and makes one feel alive, and finding ways to set each other free to be the best versions of themselves.
Conclusion
Overall, Simon emphasizes the importance of taking friendships seriously and actively working to build deeper connections with other men. He encourages listeners to be vulnerable, communicate openly, and to find shared interests in order to form authentic and fulfilling friendships.
Personal development for men is about more than just achieving success in your career and relationships. It’s about building resilience and mental toughness, so you can navigate the challenges of life with clarity and purpose. One of the most important aspects of personal development for men is developing mental toughness. In this post, we’ll explore the benefits of mental toughness and practical strategies for building it.
Mental toughness provides many benefits in terms of personal development, including improved focus, increased resilience, and better stress management. It can help you to achieve greater success in your career, build healthier relationships, and improve your overall well-being.
Setting Clear Goals
One of the most important aspects of personal development is setting clear, measurable goals and taking action to achieve them. Setting clear goals will help you to stay motivated and focused on what’s important.
Facing Challenges head-on
Building mental toughness means being able to handle difficult situations, facing challenges head-on, and learning from failures. By learning to deal with difficult situations, we can build resilience and develop a greater sense of purpose.
Developing a Strong Work Ethic
A strong work ethic is important for personal development and a crucial aspect of mental toughness. It means being reliable, responsible, and dependable in your work.
Dealing with Stress
Mental toughness also means developing the ability to handle stress and cope with difficult emotions. This can include setting boundaries, self-care, and relaxation techniques.
Achieving Growth and Fulfillment: Mental toughness is about taking control of your life, shaping your own future, and developing a sense of purpose. By building mental toughness, you can achieve growth and fulfillment in your life. Personal development is a journey, and one of the most important aspects of that journey is building mental toughness. It is important to keep in mind that is not something that can be easily achieved overnight, but it is a continuous process. If you’re ready to take control of your life and start your personal development journey, consider picking up a copy of Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity by Josh Hatcher.
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“If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.”
― Mark Twain
“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing. It was here first.”
― Mark Twain
“Loyalty to country ALWAYS. Loyalty to government, when it deserves it.”
― Mark Twain
“Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been.”
― Mark Twain
“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
― Mark Twain
“Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society.”
― Mark Twain
“Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody.”
― Mark Twain
“Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.”
― Mark Twain
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect).”
― Mark Twain
“The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who cannot read.”
― Mark Twain
“Never put off till tomorrow what may be done day after tomorrow just as well.”
― Mark Twain
“I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.”
― Mark Twain
“The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.”
― Mark Twain
“A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.”
― Mark Twain
“Never tell the truth to people who are not worthy of it.”
― Mark Twain
“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”
― Mark Twain
“In a good bookroom you feel in some mysterious way that you are absorbing the wisdom contained in all the books through your skin, without even opening them.”
― Mark Twain
“Substitute ‘damn’ every time you’re inclined to write ‘very;’ your editor will delete it and the writing will be just as it should be.”
― Mark Twain
“Reader, suppose you were an idiot. And suppose you were a member of Congress. But I repeat myself.”
Welcome to the Manlihood ManCast, the podcast for men, where we focus on personal development and explore the stories of men who are making an impact in the world. Today, we’re honored to have with us Morgan Elliott, a filmmaker and Canton native, who directed the documentary “Potty Town.”
Who is Morgan Elliott?
Meet Morgan Elliott, the talented director behind the hit documentary film “Potty Town.” Not only did this film reach the top 15 on the iTunes/Apple chart for documentaries in the U.S., but it is now available for streaming on Amazon Prime. In addition to his work on “Potty Town,” Morgan has a wealth of experience in the film industry as a writer, editor, and cinematographer. He has also served as the DoP on several award-winning short films.
“Potty Town” tells the story of one man’s humorous and sometimes tumultuous journey as he battles small town government officials to preserve his artistic toilet creations and defend his first amendment rights. This quirky film is a must-see for anyone interested in a unique blend of comedy and social commentary.
Morgan Elliott Background
Morgan Elliott is a talented young filmmaker who has always had a passion for storytelling. He grew up in Canton, New York, and after studying film in college, he decided to pursue a career in the industry. He has worked on a variety of projects in the past, but “Potty Town” marks his first time in the director’s chair. He’s excited to share his vision with audiences everywhere, and we can’t wait to see what he has in store for us.
About Potty Town
“Potty Town: Where Protest Meets Porcelain” is a new documentary that tells the story of Frederick J. “Hank” Robar Sr., and his 25-year-long dispute with the Northern New York town of Potsdam. The film recounts how Robar’s first toilet garden was sown when he reportedly asked the town for a zoning change at one of his properties on Market Street. The request was denied due to traffic concerns, but the town approved a Dunkin’ Donuts franchise to open just three blocks away. This led to the start of a porcelain protest that has now grown across six different properties, with the town making several attempts to uproot the flower-filled potties.
The documentary explores the motivations behind Robar’s decision to create the toilet gardens, and how they’ve evolved over time. Morgan Elliot’s film also delves into the impact of the gardens on the local community and the relationship between the town and Robar. This film is a true story of protest and resilience that will have audiences captivated.
More from Morgan Elliott and Potty Town
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We would like to thank Morgan Elliott for joining us today, and we encourage you to watch “Potty Town” on Amazon Prime Video!
Thank you for listening to the Manlihood ManCast, the podcast for men. Be sure to tune in next week for more great content on personal development and the stories of men who are making a difference in the world.
In today’s fast-paced world, it can be easy to get caught up in the grind of work and responsibilities. With so many demands on our time and energy, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. However, personal development for men is important – more so now than ever.
Here are a few reasons why personal development for men is important.
Career Success
Personal development can help men to be more effective and efficient in their careers. It can help them to develop new skills, improve their communication, and build a better work ethic. This can lead to greater opportunities for advancement and success in their field.
Relationship Success: If you focus on personal development, your relationship will improve
Men who focus on personal development are also more likely to build healthy and satisfying relationships. This can be from learning effective communication skills to developing empathy, personal development can help men connect better with others and build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Improved Well-being
Men who invest in personal development are also more likely to experience overall well-being. This can be from stress reduction, developing better self-care practices, and learning to cope with difficult emotions. All these will lead to a more positive outlook on life and overall well-being.
Mental Health is directly proportional to men’s personal development
Personal development can also help men to improve their mental health. Focusing on self-improvement and self-care can help men to reduce stress and anxiety, improve their self-esteem, and develop a greater sense of purpose.
Taking control of your life and future
Personal development is about taking control of your life and shaping your own future. It’s about learning and growing, and about becoming the best version of yourself. It’s about setting goals, taking action, and making progress. By investing in personal development, men can shape their own destiny, and not just be swept along by the waves of culture.
Personal development for men is important, because we need strong, healthy, masculine men to shape the generations to come
In today’s fast-paced world, personal development is more important than ever. It can help men to achieve greater success in their careers, build healthier relationships, and improve their overall well-being. If you’re ready to take control of your life and start your personal development journey, consider picking up a copy of Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity or finding a coach or therapist to guide you on your way.
He killed a man in combat when he was 13 years old. He was one of the fiercest Japanese warriors of his day, and he also created and perfected an art form.
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Testicular Fortitude means having deep seated masculine courage and strength. Balls. Guts. Manlihood.
Testicular Fortitude on the Manlihood ManCast is where we take a look at men who have beat the odds, men whose courage has left a lasting legacy.
Testicular Fortitude
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Todays’ man with Testicular Fortitude is Miyamoto Musashi.
He is also known by the names Miyamoto Masana or Niten.
Born in 1584 in feudal Japan, Musashi began fighting as a warrior very young.
At the Battle of Sekigahara in 1600, his fellow soldiers lost – which made him a ronin.
A ronin was a masterless samurai.
They were like the Wild West Gunslingers of the American West– soldiers for hire, duelists, and mercenaries. They were competitive, sometimes hired to protect, but usually they fought for their own honor, rather than someone else’s.
He worked toward mastering his skills with the sword. His goal was to create the perfect sword technique, and what he created would become known as kensai. Kensai is a fencing style with two swords.
Musashi fought and won more than 60 sword duels, many to the death.
On one occasion, the youthful Musashi traveled to Kyoto to fight the master at the Yoshioka family school of martial arts. He arrived late, but the duel went on. It was not a battle to the death, but a wooden sword duel. One blow from Musashi and Yoshioka Seijuro was out of the fight with serious injury to his shoulder and arm.
Seijuro resigned from teaching and became a monk. His status and honor as master had been skunked by a young man.
The new head of the family challenged Musashi. Musashi arrived late again, but killed him with a blow to the head
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Now, the Yoshioka family, dishonored by Musashi’s prowess in battle, invited Musashi to another duel with the new head of the family, a 12 year old boy. They knew he had been late to the last two duels, so they plotted an ambush.
This time, though, Musashi arrived early, and saw the family setting up the ambush.
He attacked and killed the boy, and then victoriously fought his way through the mob of mercenaries that meant to kill him.
In 1612, Musashi’s most notorious duel was fought against Sasaki Kojiro.
His rival was known to be as good if not better of a swordsman as himself.
The battle was fought on a remote island off the coast. As they rowed out to the battleground, Musashi carved a wooden sword from his oar. And then, entering the fight, quickly killed Kojiro with a strike to the head with the wooden sword.
Musashi knew it was time to “quit while he was ahead,” and retired from sword fighting.
He did go on to train other swordsmen, and write a very well known war strategy known as The Book of Five Rings.
That book would go on to inspire and inform many warriors, and later western business executives in the 1970s after it was translated to English.
His writings are full of inspiration, motivation, and a perspective which sounds as though it could have been written today as much as in the 15th century.
Listen to these pieces of wisdom from Musashi
“There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“From one thing, know ten thousand things.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“Today is victory over yourself of yesterday; tomorrow is your victory over lesser men.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“You must understand that there is more than one path to the top of the mountain.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“The ultimate aim of martial arts is not having to use them.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“All men are the same except for their belief in their own selves, regardless of what others may think of them.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“The only reason a warrior is alive is to fight, and the only reason a warrior fights is to win.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
“Truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is, and you must bend to its power or live a lie.” -Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings
Musashi was also known as an artist.
He was skilled at the art of Sumi-e – a monochromatic painting style originating in Japan. His paintings Koboku meikakuzu (“Shrike Perched in a Dead Tree”) and Rozanzu (“Wild Geese Among Reeds”) are his most well known.
Miyamoto Musashi was truly a warrior poet. He lived in a brutal time – and served it well. He fought for honor, but he also fought for beauty. The same hands that spilled blood were skilled with ink. The same clear head that he used to fight bravely was the same clear head that taught warriors and businessmen alike to achieve their goals.
While the idea of a “Renaissance Man” may be a western concept, Musashi modeled it in the east.
For his courage, consistency, innovation, creativity, and life-changing words – we salute Miyamoto Musashi’s Testicular Fortitude.
Our guest on the Manlihood ManCast this week is Dr. Terrence Z. Johnson, a counselor and motivational speaker who specializes in personal development for men. Dr. Johnson is a licensed professional counselor and board certified tele-mental health provider with a wealth of experience in working with men to help them achieve their goals and live their best lives.
Understanding and Working with Dreams for Personal Development
On the show, Dr. Johnson will be discussing the importance of understanding and working with our dreams as a tool for personal growth and development. He believes that our dreams can reveal valuable insights about ourselves and can help us tap into our inner wisdom to guide us on our journey of self-discovery.
Learn more about Dr. Johnson and his Work
Dr. Johnson is also the founder and CEO of I-Progress, a personal development and coaching company that helps men to achieve their goals and reach their full potential. He believes that by understanding and working with our inner selves, we can unlock our true potential and live our best lives. You can find out more about Dr. Johnson and his work by visiting his website, I-Progress (https://iprogress.cc/), and following him on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/iprogresscc/) and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/iprogresscc/).
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Personal development is a crucial aspect of being a man. It not only helps you achieve success in your career and relationships, but also leads to a sense of fulfillment and well-being. However, many men struggle to understand where to start when it comes to men’s personal development. To help you get on the right track, here are five key principles that every man should understand and embrace.
In this post, we’ll explore the five key principles that every man should understand and embrace in order to achieve personal growth and fulfillment. From setting clear goals and taking action, to developing a strong sense of self-worth and building healthy relationships, these principles are essential for any man looking to improve himself and his life.
Setting Clear Goals and Taking Action
One of the most important aspects of men’s personal development is setting clear, measurable goals and taking action to achieve them. This means identifying what you want to achieve, and creating a plan to make it happen. Whether it’s a career goal, a financial goal, or a personal goal, having a clear direction will help you stay motivated and focused on what’s important.
Developing a Strong Sense of Self-Worth
Another key principle of personal development for men is developing a strong sense of self-worth. This means understanding your own value and believing that you are worthy of love, respect, and success. A strong sense of self-worth is essential for overcoming fear and self-doubt, and achieving your goals.
Building Healthy Relationships
Men’s personal development is not just about achieving success, it also includes building healthy relationships. Whether it’s with a significant other, friends, or family, having positive and supportive relationships can help you feel fulfilled and happy. It is important to learn how to communicate effectively, to listen actively, and to develop empathy for the people around you.
Embracing a Growth Mindset
Personal development is not about achieving perfection, but about embracing the journey of self-improvement. A growth mindset means being open to change and willing to learn from your mistakes. It means embracing challenges as opportunities for growth, and focusing on progress over perfection.
Continuous Learning and Self-Improvement
Men’s personal development is not a one-time event, but a lifelong journey. The final key principle is to continuously learn, improve, and grow. This means taking the time to reflect on your life, to identify areas of improvement, and to take action to develop yourself. This can include reading self-help books, attending seminars, or working with a coach.
By understanding and embracing these five principles of personal development, men can improve themselves and achieve growth and fulfillment in their lives. It is important to note that personal development is a continuous journey and it is important to keep the above principles in mind and work towards incorporating them in one’s daily life.
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The CEO and the janitor may not be equal in terms of pay scale, or even the value that they add to an organization – but as people, they have an equality of value.
The guy scrubbing the toilets and the guy scrubbing the paychecks BOTH need to see themselves as leaders.
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Leadership belongs in all areas of life
Your job, your family, your community, your own SELF-IMPROVEMENT, all require leadership skills. Every aspect and every area of your life will benefit if you view yourself as a leader, and if you apply the principles of leading others to leading yourself.
Leadership needs no title
You don’t need an official title to lead. If you are at the bottom of the rung, you can still set the tone, and take on responsibility.
Leadership is influence
The very nature of leadership is not that it demands obedience, but that it conveys influence upon others. Very few people obey a title. But many will follow the example of someone who is a positive influence on them, and who strives to help them improve.
Leadership is service
Leadership is about service. If we go to great historical leaders who led people well, we will see that their goal wasn’t fame or fortune, their goal wasn’t always victory or domination – but their goal was to serve their people, their country, their community, their circle.