In this special Thanksgiving episode of ‘Manlihood ManCast’, host Josh Hatcher is joined by his friend Justin Willoughby. http://justinwilloughby.com They discuss the reasons why Thanksgiving is their favorite holiday, with an entertaining debate on favorite foods and the appropriateness of Christmas movies on Thanksgiving. Justin humorously shares his distaste for gravy and later takes the ‘gravy challenge’. Furthermore, the duo discuss the real essence of the holiday season, emphasizing the importance of cherishing memorable moments with family and friends over indulging in food. The show concludes with Thanksgiving messages from special guests:
EJ Snyder, Six-time ‘Naked and Afraid’ legend https://ejsnyder.com/
Sheldon Crocker, award-winning speaker, writer, and disability rights advocate https://www.sheldonstransformativethinking.com/
On this episode of Manly Chunks of Wisdom on the Manlihood ManCast, we’ll feature Quotes from Jordan Peterson. Jordan Peterson is a Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology. Born on June 12, 1962, in Alberta, Canada, he gained widespread recognition for his critiques of political correctness and advocacy for free speech. Peterson rose to international prominence with his opposition to compelled speech legislation in Canada. He is also a prolific author, with his best-selling book “Maps of Meaning” and the widely successful “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos.” Known for his insightful perspectives on psychology, philosophy, and societal issues, Peterson has become a prominent figure in contemporary intellectual discourse.
At Manlihood, we’re curating chunks of manly wisdom for you. If you’re like a lot of men, you may find yourself short on time for reading long books to look for wisdom that you can apply to your life…. We’re offering you the Campbells Soup version… the best quotes and insights to help inspire you to be an even better man.
“I don’t think that you have any insight whatsoever into your capacity for good until you have some well-developed insight into your capacity for evil.” ― Jordan B. Peterson
“To stand up straight with your shoulders back is to accept the terrible responsibility of life, with eyes wide open. It means deciding to voluntarily transform the chaos of potential into the realities of habitable order. It means adopting the burden of self-conscious vulnerability, and accepting the end of the unconscious paradise of childhood, where finitude and mortality are only dimly comprehended. It means willingly undertaking the sacrifices necessary to generate a productive and meaningful reality (it means acting to please God, in the ancient language).” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“When you have something to say, silence is a lie.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“You’re going to pay a price for every bloody thing you do and everything you don’t do. You don’t get to choose to not pay a price. You get to choose which poison you’re going to take. That’s it.” ― Jordan B. Peterson
“You can only find out what you actually believe (rather than what you think you believe) by watching how you act. You simply don’t know what you believe, before that. You are too complex to understand yourself.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“If you can’t understand why someone is doing something, look at the consequences of their actions, whatever they might be, and then infer the motivations from their consequences. For example if someone is making everyone around them miserable and you’d like to know why, their motive may simply be to make everyone around them miserable including themselves.” ― Jordan B. Peterson
“If you fulfill your obligations everyday you don’t need to worry about the future.” ― Jordan Peterson
“It took untold generations to get you where you are. A little gratitude might be in order. If you’re going to insist on bending the world to your way, you better have your reasons.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“To suffer terribly and to know yourself as the cause: that is Hell.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“Don’t underestimate the power of vision and direction. These are irresistible forces, able to transform what might appear to be unconquerable obstacles into traversable pathways and expanding opportunities. Strengthen the individual. Start with yourself. Take care with yourself. Define who you are. Refine your personality. Choose your destination and articulate your Being. As the great nineteenth-century German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche so brilliantly noted, “He whose life has a why can bear almost any how.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“The purpose of life, as far as I can tell… is to find a mode of being that’s so meaningful that the fact that life is suffering is no longer relevant.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief
“Perhaps you are overvaluing what you don’t have and undervaluing what you do.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“Ideologies are substitutes for true knowledge, and ideologues are always dangerous when they come to power, because a simple-minded I-know-it-all approach is no match for the complexity of existence.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“If you are not willing to be a fool, you can’t become a master.” ― Jordan B. Peterson
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“In the West, we have been withdrawing from our tradition-, religion- and even nation-centred cultures, partly to decrease the danger of group conflict. But we are increasingly falling prey to the desperation of meaninglessness, and that is no improvement at all.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“The better ambitions have to do with the development of character and ability, rather than status and power. Status you can lose. You carry character with you wherever you go, and it allows you to prevail against adversity.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“The successful among us delay gratification. The successful among us bargain with the future.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
“And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
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In this compelling episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher sits down with addiction recovery expert, J. K. Amezi. Discussing the often-taboo topic of overcoming pornography addiction, the two men delve into a deep and inspiring conversation about this prevalent issue in men’s lives. Amezi shares about his own struggles and illuminates the path to freedom and self-love. From the process of self-discovery to the importance of discipline, vulnerability and self-image in overcoming addictive behaviors, this interview is packed with powerful insights and offers hope to anyone struggling with pornography addiction.
Introducing J.K. Emezi, a seasoned Sex & Pornography Addiction Recovery Coach and the visionary CEO behind Elevated Recovery (www.elevatedrecovery.org). In our latest podcast episode, J.K. takes center stage as a guiding force, sharing insights from his wealth of experience in steering high-achieving men and their partners through the complexities of compulsive behaviors.
With a proven track record, J.K. has been a beacon of support, helping individuals navigate challenges such as serial affairs, porn addiction, and engagement with prostitutes. His expertise has shielded many from the potential pitfalls of divorce, job loss, sexual harassment litigation, and chronic underachievement.
Drawing from 11 years as a high-achieving sales and recruiting professional, J.K. has a unique perspective on building success from the ground up. His diverse clientele includes top-tier professionals from various fields and over 20 countries, showcasing the global impact of his work.
Elevated Recovery, under J.K.’s leadership, has earned endorsements from therapists, mental health professionals, marriage counselors, and relationship experts worldwide. At the core of his contributions is “The Porn Reboot System,” a transformative online addiction recovery course for sex and porn addiction that has received widespread acclaim.
Join us in the podcast episode as we delve into J.K. Emezi’s insights, exploring the transformative journey to reclaiming lives from the grip of addiction and unlocking full potential.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
Your porn habit doesn’t have to define you….
01:06 Join the Manlihood Man Cave
If you want to go deeper… Into this, I want to encourage you to join the Manlihood Man Cave, which is our private Facebook group….
01:43 Overcoming Pornography Addiction
So one of the things that we talk about here at Manlihood again is men becoming even better men….
02:35 Interview with J. K. Amezi
JK, it’s great to have you on the show, man….
03:02 The Role of Fitness and Self-Image
And, you know, when you start working out, um, I remember like years ago, I was doing it, honestly, for the most superficial reasons….
04:14 Understanding the Nature of Addiction
why don’t you talk to our guests a little bit about who you are and the work that you’re doing, man?…
08:10 The Impact of High-Speed Internet Pornography
Do you know that if you are a man who is alive today and sexually active, and who watches pornography to any degree, you have seen more naked people having sex than every single one of your ancestors who ever existed….
11:24 The Role of Spirituality in Recovery
Everybody, once they get to a certain point in what we call their reboots, I’ll get into why we call it reboot and not recovery, has some sort of reconnection with the spiritual aspect of their life….
13:38 The Struggle with Addiction
You, you mentioned something in there, and I know that in my battle it was definitely part of it, is that constant feeling that you were fighting it, right?…
17:05 The Importance of Self-Compassion in Recovery
And this is so powerful and this is why I prefer That men work with their brain and face this because it allows you to build self compassion towards yourself….
21:50 J. K. Amezi’s Personal Journey
Like, like what, what led you to that place?…
27:02 The Challenge of Staying Away from Pornography
All I have to say is, try staying away from pornography for just 30 days….
28:45 Debunking Myths and Understanding the Impact of Pornography
That’s only one study and it’s been debunked….
29:35 Personal Struggles and the Need for Balance
Josh, it doesn’t matter, like, for you it may be with food….
30:05 Identifying Areas of Life Lacking Control
So, identify the area in your life that you don’t have control….
30:42 The Struggles of Balancing Work and Personal Life
I recently started, uh, a new career and I’m, I work from home, so I’m, you know, my office is just upstairs….
32:02 The Concept of Working in Seasons
But the issue I find that a lot of men have is that they don’t understand the concept of working in seasons….
35:01 The Impact of Compulsive Behavior on Success
Well first of all, um… One of the reasons why we are probably the most successful, And by successful I mean we have the most clients, we’ve been around the longest, and we help men end their behavior within two years, is because… We are patient, and I want those of you listening to know that if you’re thinking of reaching out or speaking to somebody, there’s a lot of shame….
36:02 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Compassion
You have to learn to be self compassionate….
36:21 Educating Yourself About Your Compulsive Behavior
So for those of you who are thinking to reach out, the first thing I would say is educate yourself….
37:49 The Journey to Overcoming Compulsive Behavior
One thing I want to make clear, and Josh I didn’t share this, was that I struggled with everything in life….
56:02 The Importance of Self-Love and Self-Image
I I’ll just tell him to love himself more….
57:42 Advice for Men and Final Thoughts
Change your self image by changing your self talk….
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher speaks about the feeling of being stuck in one’s life, dreaming about desired futures, and the necessity of change, investment and sacrifice to make those dreams a reality. He uses metaphors such as rafting down a river, filling a jar with spare change and the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly to illustrate these points.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
Have you ever felt stuck and looked at your life and said, that’s where I want to be….
00:47 Appreciation and Giveaway Announcement
Gentlemen, welcome to the Manlihood….
02:28 The Rafting Story: A Metaphor for Life
Years ago, I used to go….
04:57 Understanding Your Goals and Dreams
So you get in those situations in your life where you can see your end goal, you can see where you want to go….
06:22 The Importance of Change and Sacrifice
You’ve got to make some big changes….
07:40 The Power of Positive Thinking
So I got to say guys, that first thing, that first change is the biggest and the hardest change….
09:44 The Concept of Sacrifice
You know, Um, When I was a kid, I love telling stories….
13:31 Metamorphosis: A Symbol of Transformation
And in my relationship with god as a christian there’s also a degree of it that into whichi am saying lord i’m giving this thing up to you14:30 Conclusion: The Power of Community
And the worm Eats all the leaves and it grows really big and then it sacrifices and it makes a change
Welcome to the Manlihood Mancast, where resilience, adventure, and self-discovery converge. In this compelling episode, we sit down with the versatile Adam Pendicini, a man whose life journey resonates with triumphs and challenges, from the glamorous world of acting to the demanding terrain of 200-mile races.
A Tapestry of Adventure
Adam’s story is more than a series of achievements; it’s a testament to the fortitude found in facing life’s adversities head-on. Host Josh guides us through a conversation that delves into the significance of embracing challenges and living a life authentically marked by adventure.
Embracing Resilience and Transformative Adventures
Adam Pendicini’s narrative goes beyond the surface, exploring the impact of childhood trauma, the resilience needed to overcome it, and the transformative power embedded in everyday adventures. Whether gracing the screen or conquering ultra-marathons, Adam’s experiences have cultivated not just physical strength but also a profound understanding of self.
Adventure Fit: A Program Changing Lives
The conversation unfolds to reveal Adam’s brainchild, the Adventure Fit program. Rooted in the pillars of introspection work, movement, and adventure, this program aims to empower men to prioritize their well-being. By shattering the time constraints often cited as excuses, Adam inspires a community of men to embark on a transformative journey of personal growth.
As we explore Adam Pendicini’s journey, the Manlihood Mancast becomes a compass guiding men toward a life marked by resilience, adventure, and personal development. Join us in unleashing your potential, breaking free from excuses, and connecting with a community that shares your desire for a holistic and fulfilling existence.
Discover the world of adventure, health, and personal development seamlessly merging in this impactful episode. It’s time to prioritize your well-being and embark on a life-changing adventure with Adam Pendicini. The path to a healthier, happier, and more adventurous you starts here.
Ready to end the cycle of negativity in your relationship? Figs O’Sullivan shows you the way on this episode of the Manlihood ManCast
https://youtu.be/wpNUu6ll0SM
Figs O’Sullivan, a distinguished Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and an unwavering advocate for Emotionally-Focused Therapy, stands at the forefront of esteemed therapists in San Francisco. Hailing from the vibrant landscapes of Ireland, Figs has traversed a remarkable path, from the ancient Emerald Isle to the sun-kissed shores of Hawaii, where he now resides with his cherished wife, Teale, and their two children.
In his quest to unravel the mysteries of human healing, Figs bypasses the complexities of traditional therapy, offering a straightforward and often elusive route to personal growth. His mission is to empower men, providing accessible guidance on the challenging journey of emotional development.
Beyond his therapeutic prowess, Figs embodies the qualities of a loving father, a dependable friend, and a trusted confidant, underscoring the principles of manhood and empathy. His remarkable expertise has earned him a reputation as the go-to couples therapist for the influential figures of Silicon Valley. Figs is no stranger to assisting the world’s brightest and most creative minds in forging resilient and loving partnerships.
What sets Figs apart is his captivating, quick-witted, and relatable speaking style, inviting his male audience into insightful, and at times, humorous discussions. His ability to decipher human emotions has even drawn comparisons to the formidable IBM Watson, as noted by NPR.
Figs O’Sullivan’s impact transcends his therapy room. With over 1,500 course participants and a community of more than 16,000 Empathi users, his wisdom reaches far and wide. A dedicated community of 20,000 email subscribers eagerly awaits his insights and guidance.
Figs dives into a range of thought-provoking subjects, addressing questions that resonate with men. He demystifies the enigma of recurring relationship conflicts, explores the essence of love, and demystifies the intricacies of human connection. Figs imparts valuable perspectives and practical steps to make love work, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the rational basis behind everyone’s actions. He sheds light on the complexities of building enduring relationships, breaking free from negative patterns, and forging the emotional bonds that define true manhood.
With an abundance of experience and a heartfelt commitment to helping men navigate the intricate landscape of emotions and relationships, Figs O’Sullivan stands as a guiding light for those seeking love and healing. His insights are transformative and deeply resonant, making him an indispensable resource for men on their journey to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Discover the wisdom of Figs O’Sullivan at https://empathi.com/, and join the Manlihood ManCast community in the pursuit of authentic manhood and meaningful connections.
In today’s episode, we have a unique and inspiring guest joining us, someone who’s not just a barber but also a passionate story collector. Let’s introduce you to Tate Yohe, the owner/barber of Neibert’s Barbershop in Mechanicsburg, PA.
https://youtu.be/-L-KpqA4TxQ
Brief Bio Introduction:
Tate Yohe’s journey as a barber is more than just about cutting hair; it’s about building connections and preserving stories. He owns and operates Neibert’s Barbershop in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, where he’s created something truly special.
Drawing from his 14 years of experience in emergency services, Tate initially hung his patch and badge on the wall as a tribute to his past. This simple act led to the creation of a unique “patch wall.”
Former colleagues from his time in emergency services and military clients started coming in for haircuts and adding their patches to the wall. What emerged was a tapestry of stories—stories from the front lines, deployments, moments of triumph, and even moments of loss.
Tate recognized the power of these stories and the need to share them with a broader audience. Thus, he embarked on a mission to bring you inside the barbershop and offer a glimpse into the lives of the individuals whose patches adorn the shop’s walls.
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Don’t miss this enlightening episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we dive into the world of storytelling through patches with Tate Yohe, a barber who is not only grooming hair but also preserving incredible stories. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
George S. Patton was a bold US General with Testicular Fortitude!
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Testicular Fortitude means having deep seated masculine courage and strength. Balls. Guts. Manlihood.
Testicular Fortitude on the Manlihood ManCast is where we take a look at men who have beat the odds, men whose courage has left a lasting legacy.
Patton was born into a wealthy family in San Gabriel, California in 1885. As a child, he had difficulty with spelling and reading, which later led historians to speculate that he suffered from dyslexia. Despite his struggles, Patton became an avid reader and developed a passion for military history. He attended the Virginia Military Institute and then transferred to the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, where he repeated his freshman year due to poor grades. However, Patton improved his academic performance and graduated in June 1909, becoming a commissioned second lieutenant in the cavalry.
Patton’s courage was first tested when he saw his first combat after leaving Fort Riley. In 1916, Pancho Villa led an attack on Columbus, New Mexico, and Patton joined the staff of Brig. Gen. John J. Pershing in the ensuing punitive expedition into Mexico. While the mission failed to capture Villa, Patton led a raid that killed three of Villa’s men, which received much publicity and was notable for being the first time automobiles were used in combat by the US Army.
Patton’s courage was again put to the test during World War I. When the US entered the war, Patton joined the American Expeditionary Force (AEF) in France, where he was appointed as the first officer to the newly formed US Army Tank Corps. Patton trained, organized, and even designed the uniforms for the new tank units. He was promoted to lieutenant colonel and later became the temporary colonel, leading the first US tank units into battle during the Saint-Mihiel offensive.
Despite being badly wounded by a machine-gun bullet in the Meuse-Argonne offensive, Patton refused to be taken to the hospital until he had reported to his commander, showing incredible bravery under fire. His bravery earned him the Distinguished Service Cross.
In the years that followed World War I, Patton continued to be a proponent of tank warfare. During World War II, he was promoted to temporary major general and made the commander of the 2nd Armored Division. After the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor, Patton organized the Desert Training Center to simulate combat and maneuvers in the harsh North African climate.
Patton’s strict discipline, toughness, and self-sacrifice elicited exceptional pride within his ranks, and he was referred to as “Old Blood-and-Guts” by his men. Despite controversies due to his brash actions and mercurial temper, Patton’s bravery and testicular fortitude made him one of the greatest military commanders in history. His legacy lives on as an inspiration to all those who admire and value true courage and bravery.
When Henry Darlington and Gerald Mygatt assembled and published the Soldiers’ and Sailors’ Prayer Book in 1944, they requested many of our nation’s leaders to contribute a written prayer.
Patton submitted a prayer for courage.
I find it interesting, because our picture of Patton’s courage seems to be innate… something he possessed and owned, but if this prayer is to be taken seriously, Patton’s unwavering courage was not drummed up from within, but rather bestowed upon him.
God of our Fathers, who by land and sea has ever led us to victory, please continue Your inspiring guidance in this the greatest of our conflicts.
Strengthen my soul so that the weakening instinct of self-preservation, which besets all of us in battle, shall not blind me to my duty to my own manhood, to the glory of my calling, and to my responsibility to my fellow soldiers.
Grant to our armed forces that disciplined valor and mutual confidence which ensures success in war.
Let me not mourn for the men who have died fighting, but rather let me be glad that such heroes have lived.
If it be my lot to die, let me do so with courage and honor in a man-ner which will bring the greatest harm to the enemy, and please, O Lord, protect and guide those I shall leave behind.
Give us the victory, Lord. Amen.
Testicular Fortitude
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Testicular Fortitude INTRO
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Testicular Fortitude means having deep seated masculine courage and strength. Balls. Guts. Manlihood.
Testicular Fortitude on the Manlihood ManCast is where we take a look at men who have beat the odds, men whose courage has left a lasting legacy.
Testicular FortitudeDo you have testicular fortitude? Do you want to embrace your life of courage? Join our elite group of powerhouse men who are changing the world. Manlihood.com/brotherhood
Welcome back, Manlihood ManCast listeners! In today’s episode, we have the privilege of introducing you to a multifaceted and exceptionally talented individual, Matt Moore. His diverse skills and passions have earned him a reputation as a true Southern Gentleman and a standout in the culinary world. Let’s delve into his fascinating journey.
Who Is Matt Moore?
Matt Moore wears many hats, and each one showcases his incredible range of talents. He’s not just an author but also an entrepreneur, accomplished cook, musician, host, pilot, and adventurer. Hailing from Nashville, Tennessee, Matt embodies the essence of a Southern Gentleman.
His work has received widespread acclaim and recognition from prestigious sources spanning the BBC and CBC to The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Atlanta Constitution, Chicago Tribune, People, Southern Living, Esquire, Men’s Journal, TODAY, VH1, FOX, Hallmark, The Art of Manliness, and countless others.
In the culinary realm, Matt Moore specializes in updated Southern cuisine infused with Mediterranean and Middle Eastern influences. He’s also renowned for his passion for cast-iron cooking and wild game.
Matt’s literary contributions have made a significant impact. His work, “A Southern Gentleman’s Kitchen” (TIME Inc Books), achieved the remarkable feat of becoming an Amazon #1 bestseller in Spring 2015. His follow-up book, “The South’s Best Butts,” earned the distinction of being named the #1 cookbook by the National BBQ and Grilling Association for 2018. His book, “Serial Griller” (HMH 2020), was met with critical acclaim and featured on CBS, TODAY, PEOPLE, and beyond.
Currently, Matt Moore is actively engaged in working on a butchering book and hosting various exciting projects.
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Matt Moore’s journey is a testament to the power of passion, versatility, and Southern hospitality. Join us in this episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we explore the world of culinary adventures with this remarkable Southern Gentleman. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher tackles some thought-provoking questions submitted by members of the Manlihood ManCave, a private Facebook group for men.
Is Chivalry Dead? Josh explores the concept of chivalry in today’s culture, discussing its relevance and importance. He emphasizes the value of showing respect and honor to women while also allowing them to make their choices and have the freedom they deserve. Chivalry is not dead; it’s about responsibility and respect.
What Separates Men from Boys? Josh defines manhood, discussing the transition from being a young man to a legal adult. He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for oneself and others as a key factor in distinguishing men from boys. Manhood is about embracing responsibility and personal growth.
Balancing Manhood and Vulnerability: Josh addresses the challenge of being a man while being vulnerable and how it can impact one’s mental health. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and honesty but also the need to be selective about sharing vulnerabilities. Josh offers insights into maintaining mental health and channeling thoughts in a positive direction.
Join the conversation and gain valuable insights into chivalry, manhood, and vulnerability in today’s world. Subscribe to the Manlihood ManCast for more episodes focused on helping men navigate the complexities of masculinity and personal growth.
