Hi fellas, I hope you are having an incredible Friday the 13th! I am extremely excited about posting here. I hope this helps your “manliness” like it has mine over the years.
I am looking back 10 years ago at my life. I was NOT confident by any stretch of the imagination. I knew I was good looking, but dated sparingly. I made up excuses when it came to women like “oh, she only likes jerks” or “She would never like a guy like me because…” CONSTANTLY lying to myself, I achieved mediocre results.
Truth be told – I wasn’t wired to want random sex. I wasn’t wired to just want to attract one night stands. I wanted to attract beautiful women to have conversation with and REALLY get to know what makes them tick. I wanted to find a woman that I could do nothing without – that made me a better man everyday. Luckily for me, I found her – and I can tell you I would have NEVER attracted her had I not learned the skills I needed in order to attract her. She even admits that I was right. It is basic people skills fundamentals. The first step is to stop making Hypothesis a reality.
What am I saying?
You make up excuses for the real issues under the surface. Your not confident enough, or lack knowledge in given areas so that scares you to saying “She would never be into me.”
Come on lets face it – thats it. Ignorance and lack of action steps.
Instead of learning about what women love and want in order to start a random conversation with “Hot Girl you like” – you just say “oh she will never like someone like me.” Accepting the mediocrity in your life and not getting what you want – “Hot girl” I start a new hypothesis – what happens if you walked up to her and said – “hey, ummm, this might be weird, but I just wanted to say that I noticed you were wearing (brand of shoes, make up, whatever) and I just wanted to say it smells/looks incredible.
Even if she says she isnt wearing that – the door is open for conversation. I just proved your hypothesis that women “that hot” would never talk to you to be crap. Any other excuses? You just need to study for things you want in love and life.
Stop accepting mediocrity – that is not the manly thing to do. Men see challenges – then make adjustments to achieve goals.
Until next time!
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